How Black Women Dating White Men ?

Are you a black woman who loves white men but don't know where to meet them? Have you often heard that a lot of white men find black women beautiful however you're still having a hard time finding them? In order to meet white men you may have to pull yourself out of your comfort zone. Do you happen to be someone who works in an office with NO men...or none that you have absolutely no interest in?

Are you one of those people who remain in a mobile triangle-work, home,church, or work, home, grocers? If you find yourself hanging out in the same areas day in and day out, it might be time to try something new. This also applies to white men seeking black women with no success. There are 4 great tips to help you get out of that dating rut and on to the man of your dreams. These tips are life-changing and may not be for the faint of heart.


Broaden Your Horizons

Concerts, Sporting Venues, Clubs, Ect- Don't limit yourself to one genre of music. Explore music that's not exclusive to African-Americans. Visit concerts with artists that have a more diverse appeal (Cold Play, Maroon 5, Nickelback, Lifehouse). Attend sporting events that offer diverse activities (golf, tennis, hockey, baseball). There are also adventure groups that people can join as a way of meeting people. If you enjoy the club scene, frequent the ones that are also diverse. If you see a white guy that sparks your interest walk up to him and ask him to dance. You might be pleasantly surprise at his response!

The Gym

Join a gym that's all-inclusive. If you don't have a gym membership think about joining one. Not only will you get a chance to meet some hot white guys you will get a chance to do something healthy and life-changing. However if working out at the gym is not your thing frequent fitness trails in the areas where the opportunity to meet white men is prevalent.

Shopping- Frequently shop in malls and shopping centers that are ethnically diverse. If you live in a multi-cultural neighborhood you're already ahead of the game.

Take Action

Travel- Young single black women should travel abroad as much as possible. Not only will you be exposed to different cultures, it's just plain fun. As far as the cost to travel, there are many inexpensive ways too see the world. Many travel agencies offer discount packages and off-peak vacation passes. There are travel groups for black women going abroad and it's a wonderful opportunity to meet other open-minded people.

The key to meeting men is that you have to actually be where they are. Its So why are you wasting your time reading this? Get out and start mingling at some of these hotspots. The only way to be successful is to go out and try. The world is at your feet!

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4 NON-Food Related Tips To Help You Eat Less & Lose Weight

Everyday it seems like there is another miracle pill or amazing exercise machine which will most definitely make you look like Beyonce before the week is out. If I have to see one more infomercial promising to help me lose 10 pounds in 10 days, I will throw my TV out of the window. We all know that there is no miracle pill or exercise-free secret to losing weight, rather, weight loss is portion control, healthy eating and, hate to break it to you, exercise.

 




















However, there are small tricks you can use, which, while not a miracle cure, can help you change your attitude to eating, without making you go into debt to pay off the ridiculously over-priced ab workout machines. We all know the trick of using a smaller serving plate, which gives you the illusion of eating a lot of food when in reality you’re really not, but did you know there are other just as effective small mind tricks which you can use? Shine published 4 great tips you can use to help you with portion control, to ensure you don’t over eat….

1. Light a vanilla scented candle.

Supposedly, the vanilla scent reduces dessert cravings. In fact, Shine report that one group of 160 volunteers actually lost an average of 4.5 pounds each by wearing vanilla-scented patches. Smells amazing, and you don’t intake useless calories on dessert. How can you beat that?

2. Paint your dining room blue.

Blue rooms help people to eat less, as the blue tinge makes the food look less appealing. In fact research has shown that people eat 33% less in a blue hued room. While no one is actually crazy enough to go all out and paint their walls blue, you can try to achieve the same mood by hanging blue lamp-shades and paintings, or using blue plates and napkins. Conversely, red, yellow and orange colors have been shown to promote appetite, so steer clear of these in your dining rooms if possible. I guess it’s no coincidence so many fast food chains use red and yellow in their color schemes is it?

3. Put on relaxing music.

Soft, slow background music helps you to slow down and relax normally doesn’t it? So logic holds that the same would apply when eating. It has been found that soft tunes playing in the background while eating actually encourage more leisurely chewing. It combats hurry-up, stress-related eating by naturally relaxing you, which means that you eat less, because instead of wolfing down an entire plate before you know it, your body has time to digest and work out that it’s actually full. Genius really!

4. Turn on the lights.

Nobody looks their best under full florescent lighting, and the same applies when eating. It has been found that low lighting seen in restaurants works to lower eating inhibitions, making people feel more comfortable with what they’re eating, which in turn makes them eat more. Turning up the lights works as a sort of “food shaming” by making people feel more self-conscious, which helps them to eat less.I don’t know about you, but sitting in a restaurant, (or even my kitchen) which resembles a hospital, would definitely stop me from lingering over the dessert plate and make me want to just get the hell out of there!

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Dating Tips for Black Women

The U.S. Census Bureau's 2011 American Community Survey reported that 43 percent of the black population aged 15 and over are in the "single and never married" category compared with just 23 percent of whites in the same age group. For black women to successfully arrive at the altar, it requires an adjustment in screening criteria and dating habits.

Getting a Date

Professional men are in high demand as mates.

Many black women have a stringent list of qualifications for men. With black women graduating from college at a 2-1 ratio over black men, the pool of good-looking, white-collar professional black men with six-figure salaries is small. However, a man's looks has nothing to do with how well he will love you nor is intelligence the domain of the educated. Limiting romantic choices based on a narrow list of criteria will keep many black women at home alone.



Casual Dating

Have the courage to say "enough!" if it's not working for you.

Dating provides the opportunity for two strangers to spend time together sharing a pleasurable experience. The best dates are not dinner and a movie but an activity that gets you involved, having fun and talking. Have fun without creating expectations of anything long term.

Listening to men is critical. Listen to his words while paying strict attention to what he does. A man of his word is a man of character. Allow him to speak and ask questions about his interests, history and goals while sharing similar information yourself. Maintain a positive attitude and a smile.

At first, avoid topics such as religion, abortion or prison reform. He'll be interested in your experiences, and what things mean to you but not in gossip. Avoid discussion of past relationships because few men want to hear how other men did you wrong.

Should you discover after the first few dates that this man is not what you are looking for in terms of character, attitude or maturity, be strong enough to end it and move on. Don't waste your time trying to "make it work."


Winning the Dating Game

It's common for single black women to assume after a couple of dates that they are in an exclusive relationship. Many begin auditioning for the role of wife by cooking and cleaning. Assume that the new man in your life is seeing at least one other woman. Until you have had a serious conversation about commitment, you are both free to date others. Should you decide to go to the next level, provide a grace period and opportunity for your partner to resolve past relationships.

As your relationship progresses, sex will become an issue. Premature sexual intimacy causes many women to develop emotional attachments to unsuitable men. Though intimacy may be involved, it is inappropriate to expect fidelity or accountability from a man you are not in a committed relationship with.

Dating is a game, but you have to be in it to win. Get out of the house or office and socialize in settings where you are likely to meet someone with similar interests. Never be afraid to make the first move by saying "hello!"

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5 Things Black Women Need To Stop Doing

I love my black women, but there are some things that I notice need to stop. I won’t subject you to watching a seven-minute viral video of two robotic animations trading stereotypical insults. But here are five things I think will help us all if Black women would just cease and desist.

 

1. Asking Men to pay for Cosmetics

The only thing I’m paying for to enhance your body is soap. If you like Zest or Dove, the world is yours.  The moment you start asking for me to get your hair done, I’ll sit you down and do it my damn self. You go get your hair done at some place that’s never close to where you live because of some suggestion from a friend. By the time you get back, I’m horny, but you don’t want to “sweat it out.” Do you think I’m going to pay for that?  That’s the complete opposite of prostitution. In fact, it’s prohibition!

2. Hitting Men

This needs to stop immediately. I will never condone hitting women. Ever. But there are some women out there that I will not sympathize with. Sorry. It’s one thing when you are talking out your neck and waving your hands in our faces, but you don’t have to touch us. Just because the law is on your side does not mean you have to take advantage of it. There are a couple of men out there that don’t have a problem knocking you out.

3. Watching “The Game”

This useless show is destroying our women. I took the time to see what this show was all about since every black girl in the world watches it and won’t stop talking about it. Do you know what I found out fellas? The whole show centers around the “Sister, Sister” chick f***ing EVERYBODY. The football dude, the other other football dude, some other guy that lives with his mom for some reason even though he’s a grown ass man. It doesn’t make any sense.

4. Doobie wrap and pins, without a scarf (I Know Why the Caged Hair Sings)

Did every Black girl in America run out of scarves? Or did the salon catch on fire while your hair was getting done? Did you have to run out to save your life? If the answer is no, then find a damn scarf and put it on your head. You look stupid with all those pins in your hair.

5. Acting Like You Don’t…

Black women are notorious for going out of their way to let a man know that they will never go down (and have never been down) on a guy. There is always that same excuse “that’s just nasty.” We are all adults and we know what we all do. Stop fronting.

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